Friends

Sparkling Wine or Louis XIII de Remy Martin?

     Why waste time with younger females? They will inevitably have more relationship mishaps than someone a bit older than you. Someone with a few more years under the belt tends to mean, in general, she has a bit more experience than her younger counterpart. So, going with the girl who is slightly older awards a level of reassurance she won’t be as spontaneous with her emotions as her younger-self would be. And anyone in a long term relationship will concur the benefit of less spontaneous breakdowns.

Falling into a relationship with a younger girl seems to feel like I would be babysitting for the first year or two (mostly speculating here). Going on dates with a younger girl who’s overly naïve, making obnoxious giggling to childish quirks, yammering away about last night’s episode of Glee, none of that is as appealing as a girl who can carry a quality conversation about the cosmos or nutrition. I’m quite sure I would rather just avoid dating altogether than have to deal with the noxious antics of a younger companion.  





     How can you argue against dating younger women? We’ll just rest the visual aspect on the table for now, as that’s an obvious advantage to the more youthful woman that isn’t really debatable. First of all, you have the ace up your sleeve of having more world experience, wisdom, and maturity than she-and mostly likely most of the men she’s dated-has. This is not only to your advantage when it comes time to put your foot down on a subject that’s important to you; but it makes you more attractive to her when you show off how practical and grounded you are rather than rash and quick tempered, probably in stark contrast with most of the “boys” she’s been around.

If you feel like a babysitter while dating a younger girl then you have a messed up view of babysitting.  I DON’T have to speculate here, I can say a significantly younger girl offers the perfect compliment to the older man. What she may lack in knowledge or experience is more than made up with youthful vitality, and the lack of that jaded mindset that the harsh realities of life can impart. While you may need to be the “decision-maker” when it comes to some things, the fresh outlook of youth filtered through a more adult mind can help you look at everything from a new perspective and actually help you grow yourself.


And to bring this subject back off the table...they sure do look good when they are young.